Have you ever thought why do people live together happily ever after? I thought about it. Firstly, because they approached each other. Because their marriage was originally built not only on love and mutual attraction, but also on common interests, outlooks on life. Secondly, because people are compromising. Thirdly, because they are mature enough to respect each other, which means, the needs and desires of each other. After this, it becomes more clear why others are struggling to hold together for a year. Their marriage was built only on sharply emerging feelings, which gradually cool down, and beneath them there is nothing else. There are no common interests. But there is selfishness. As a result, it makes no sense to stay together. Such was happened with my previous relations and now I want to change my life. The main thing is not to be afraid to admit your own mistakes and start taking responsibility. I am ready and what about you? Alena