I debated whether or not to reply to this blog, but the question and answer are so powerful, it merits a response from a man's perspective. First let me say I truly love what Nadia says, the way she describes the advantages of older vs. younger men and the thought behind it. But will a beautiful 25 year old woman genuinely fall in love, move to and marry a man twice her age or more and remain faithful. That's the $million$ question, or in my case $30,000. The premise behind her words and the hope and belief that it could actually be true is why most of us men are here to begin with. We are disenchanted with women from our native land and are trying to hit the lottery here. I'm a 57 year old man and look damn good for my age I will admit and in my younger years, never had a problem finding young beautiful women. In fact I was married to a gorgeous Penthouse Pet in my 20's and dated several others in my 30's. I've been on several of these dating sites for over 2 years now, have met many beautiful, intelligent young women, developed very close relationships with a few and actually fell in love...well at least as much as you can fall in love with someone you've never actually met other than in the virtual world. In all this time, Not One Woman has come to visit me. Yes Visit Me. My belief is if the woman is seeking a man in the Western World, wants to move and live with the man in His Country, she should go to him, see his home, his city, his area and all that it offers. She can see Exactly where she would live and what her life would be like there should she choose him. The other question is would a 25 year old remain faithful to a 60 year old 10 years from now. She will still be a beautiful 35 year old while he is an old wrinkled 70 year old with many handsome , successful and wealthy men in their 40's are lurking in the weeds just ready to pounce on the opportunity to steal a beautiful young foreign woman from an old and aging man. Conventional wisdom says she will leave him. With all the money I've spent writing letters, chat, video, sending gifts, I could've flown bak & forth to Ukraine 10 times which is probably what I should've done because I would've found out the truth much quicker and also have the chance to meet in person other local women while in town. Sex is not the only reason we are here. Face it we could buy a gorgeous and exceptionally hot prostitute and get whatever we want for far less than what we end up spending on these sites. The end of this year marks my 3rd year and There Will Not Be A 4th! Either My Woman Comes to me or in the midst of coming by the end of the year or I will just live alone. So are these beautiful young women Really Interested and will Commit to an older man or is it just a ploy to get lonely older guys wanting to fulfill and live their dream to spend all their money? I guess I will find out soon if I Am The King Or The Fool!