Your message is very real and true, and still, if you do all the right things, they are based on the whim of a woman.. This beautiful creature, has dreams and desires all her very own and no matter what she says here, It still may not come true. This is a scary way to do things involving such an elusive ideal as Love. Maybe it is the only way to do it, but it leaves room for improvement at best. I am as honest as they come and, like you I just delete sexual messages that can have no meaning to me whatsoever. I love and respect all woman to a certain extent and most everyone has an equal chance with me. I wish we could talk more like on Skype where you get a real feel for whom you're talking with as facial expressions and mannerisms can help each of our causes. Ah, but that eliminates the profit, doesn't it? Still, chat helps immensely. And this is for a price, as is everything in this world. I bless you, friend and wish you luck and honesty from all you deal with here. Ray.