Hi and good day to you all. Just a few points that I want to make known and these are my thoughts about this site and how it is used. There are so many beautiful ladies here and it is very hard for us men to distinguish what may or may not be real. Like many men I am attracted to the outer package and that package helps me decide who I want to know more about. One can only learn so much through letters here especially if a lady doesn't want to always answer your questions or comment on what you say. That is one of the biggest issues I have here. As I said we all notice the outer beauty and that draws us to want to know someone better but it is the continued correspondence with someone that leads us all to fall in love with that person. That is also true in real life as we see a woman or man we like and want to know them better before we fall in love. Falling in love allows us to really become more familiar with that person but many times here, ladies do not want to exchange contact information so you can move forward with building a relationship. I have been here nearly 6 years now and have fallen in love several times but have never met anyone from here in person. I am a poor man living on a government pension so I cannot afford to travel, nor can I really afford to chat every day. I am lucky to be able to afford monthly memberships so I can write my 20 letters a month. I do my best always to be open and honest with any lady I correspond with but it is hard to know who is for real here. I want to believe but when you keep hitting a brick wall all the time it does get discouraging. I believe that one day I will find that one woman and she will see who I am and we will build a good life together and until that time I will keep looking and pray that I will find her. Maybe she is reading this and will show me just how good life can be