Every woman wants to love and to be loved. Even if she seems to be happy with her freedom and she says she needs nobody – don’t believe her. Deeply in her soul she wants care, security, sex and a reliable partner beside. In modern society it’s not so easy to find a life partner. And frankly speaking, I’ve noticed one thing: the more educated and mature a woman is – it’s more difficult for her to find a man to build a relationship with. I’ve been thinking about this phenomenon and some interesting ideas came to my mind. First of all I want to mention the fact, that a lot of little girls, since their childhood have been told, they must be good girls, diligent pupils, devoted daughters etc. Because if she is a good girl, she will get a candy, she’ll go to the circus with parents, parents will buy her a new doll etc. Such small demands are growing within the years and when a girl is an adult, it’s about 17-18 years old, as a rule she knows exactly that she must enter a good university in order to get the higher education and obtain a prestigious profession and thank to it, she will be able to get a good, well-paid job and earn a lot of money….and of course to provide herself without anyone’s help. It’s a wild-spread scenario in modern society. I don’t say it’s bad! A woman must have an education, she must integrate into the society. It’s very good when a woman is a smart, intelligent and pleasant person to talk to. But, the problem is that nowadays young women, since their childhood are imprisoned on building a career, on creating their own business to survive, on getting everything themselves only, because they are totally sure that a real woman must be absolutely independent. But very often such independent women remain single ladies. And it’s a pity when a pretty, well-educated, mature woman is lonely and complains that there are no good men, or “real men“ as they often express. To my mind the problem is not in the lack of good and responsible men around, but the problem is that many women have already forgotten how to be just a real woman. Not stressed out in the work, not hurrying up to catch all the starts from the sky, not trying to be better or smarter than someone else, but just to be a Woman. A tender, nice and light- hearted woman who can give and receive. Why have I written “who can give & recieve“? Because in reality it’s a very important ability. A woman must give a man her support, love, care, smile when he comes back from work and a piece of advice when the situation really demands it, but she must know when it’s better to keep silence as well. What does it mean - to receive? It means a woman should be always ready to receive everything what her man can give her. It’s not always the material things, as many people think. It can be some pleasant compliment, a man’s desire to share something important for him, his attention, his sense of humor, his desire to make her life better…and many other things, which seem invisible at the first sight. I know things which I’m writing about can be not very understandable for the majority of women, but I’m dead sure all those female abilities are very important on our way to creating a happy relationship and then a happy & strong family. A key to a healthy, satisfactory relation is in realizing that nobody is perfect and there is no any prince who will come and create a brilliant relation with a woman. It’s a hard and constant work of both in a couple. Every man can become a prince if he is with a right woman! I don’t take off the responsibility from the men, but I know exactly that 75% in a relation depends on a woman, so only we are responsible for our happiness or on the contrary loneliness. Unfortunately we don’t learn all those things at school, college or university, that’s why it’s so difficult to build a good, long-term relationship for so many people. Because we don’t know how to do that. We know many foreign languages, can write difficult computer programs, we become great business women etc…but we don’t have any idea how to be a woman who is always surrounded with love and warmth, who is the guardian of the home hearth. But men need it, really need. To cut the long story short, I want to wish every woman to have a man beside, who will be always a reliable shoulder for her and who will save from all the problems and sorrows. Woman’s power is in her weakness. Remember it!!