Earlier today one woman ask if I know that real beauty is in the soul and I agreed with her. Then she asked, knowing this when we first meet will you look at my breasts and butt and legs and completely ignore my soul? I'm not an exception to the rule so naturally I will look at her legs, breasts and butt at our first meeting. I already understand that you mentioned this in your letter because you want to be sure that I will notice them in your profile photos. If women didn't want men to look they wouldn't wear push-up bras and expose so much of their breasts to view and wear such short skirts and dresses. I find it very amusing that women complain about men looking at them in a sexual way. That's the reason women exist. If the world consisted of only women they would go extinct just as quickly as a world of only men. Men need women and women need men. The most hilarious part of this is that married women go out in public dressed to look their best and then complain that men look at their breasts and butt and legs. But the funniest part is that when they get home to the man they say they love they change into their house rags. Because at home they need to be comfortable!!!! To make it even more amusing they complain that their husband stops being romantic with them. Do you see the irony in this??? I'm not interested romantically with a woman who looks homeless. And women can't see why men can not understand them. In my humble opinion if I have a beautiful woman as my wife I would prefer that she wear her house rags when she leaves the house without me. Then it would be amazing to have her dress to look her best for me. I certainly don't want my woman to attract the attention of other men when I'm not there. When we go out together then I would like her to look like a million dollars. I want other men to be jealous and envy me for having such a gorgeous woman. I would be happy to wear rags out to work or the store or wherever. When I got home I would put on some nice clothes to be appealing to my lady if she did the same for me. Unfortunately this way seems logical and therefore it would never be accepted. And we call ourselves intelligent beings, what a laugh... So, my final answer is that yes if you show them I will look and if you do not like it then you dress wrong... hahahaha. This is not a female problem it's a society gone crazy!! Happy Holidays, Mike