Hello fellow site members! In the past i have spoken about my life on this tiny island. The Outer Banks of North Carolina are majestic and in some places still untamed, with wild spanish mustangs and all the seafood a person could eat. But being a small place of 35,000 year round residents it means that we all know each other. That is what brings me here to this site. Imagine living on an island where you know everyone, and cut that in half because of married couples or senior citizens...now you have 17,000 people. Cut that in half again because of age restrictions of the young still in school and you have a little over 8,000. Take that 8,000 and, if you are a moral person, cut it in half because you won't sleep with a friends ex girlfriend or a friends friend ex girlfriend. You now have 4,000 people. Alcoholism and drug addiction is an issue here like any other town or city. I don't drink to excess and i don't do drugs, so that cuts all of the totals down to near 1,000 people. Of that 1,000 half are women....so there you go. 500 single eligible women that a man must really fight to find. After all, there are 500 other men looking for that 1 true love. That's alot of complicated math isn't it? That brings me here....to find an educated, loyal, pretty woman that hasn't slept with someone i know. Maybe some men can sleep around like that but i personally cannot. That's like putting my mouth in places where another man that i know has been. GROSS. Yes it's foolish of me to think this way but at least here i don't know the man that was before me! I would like to think in this fictional land that i am the only man for my woman. This leads me to an odd situation here that i do genuinely want opinions for. I get emails from one particular lady here that is 26 that claims to still he a virgin, but she always asks me to come and take her away and steal her virginity. I mean...she is explicit about what she wants! It doesn't seem real to me. Men, do any of you get the same messages from a woman here? She seems lovely but i don't really believe the virgin story. I will get personal about something. When i was 30 i met a woman in the USA that was indeed still a virgin. Valerie was a great girl but she had some odd behavior. She seemed VERY ready to lose her virginity. Her friends knew it and made fun of her virtue. I think it's an admirable thing to hold your body sacred, but i also think it's dead wrong to..well..almost market yourself as a "virgin." Did you readers know that many middle eastern men will pay MILLIONS to have a virgin for a weekend. It's true..GOOGLE IT! I gave the woman here the advice to go and better her life by selling her virginity for many millions of dollars! Alot of you will disagree with me but i have been to the Ukraine and unless you are the daughter of an oligarch then you could use the millions for a better life for you and your family. Back to the topic: i am here not because i can't find an American but because i am picky and i can't find an American woman with all the qualities i need that has not been with someone i know or that is the right age range. It sounds crazy i know but please please, lend me your comments and opinions on this. I appreciate you all reading this and come visit the Outer Banks of North Carolina sometime. Warmly, Andy