Hello again fellow seekers of the ever elusive LOVE! We all have read the many opinions of what we will do if or when we meet someone in real life from a site like this. I have always thought that the best lovers and partners are good friends first. No, i don't mean like staying in the friend zone while both of you date someone else. I mean that you are both there for each other in times of need and struggle. I am fortunate that someone here actually reads my blogs and cut through all the games back and forth and basically said "hey, i like you, i am interested. I am attracted to you. If you want what i want in life then let's start!" That was a summary of what she wrote to me. She is actually a lady that just posted a blog here not too long ago. That is the type of man i am. If i see something i like i have laser like focus and i go after it. It's a true shame that some people have monetized matters of love and an open heart. It actually makes me very angry. To these people o say...dont write to me. I have a great BS meter(scam meter) and i can see you coming a kilometer away. As for Ms Olga, i can only hope that some chemical connection happens and we can find some common ground. Sadly the bad thing about people that really know what they want is that they also kmow what they DO NOT want and are sometime quick to get rid of the unhealthy relationship. I am an old school romantic so to anyone reading this i welcome you to write. I will travel soon and will of course provide a completely separate hotel from mine if you choose but only after i visit yout city and family and friends. Family is important to me. I want a ladies family to feel as if their daughter is in the arms of a real gentlemen and not some creepy old perverts. Now, since i said that i think it would be wise for the younger ladies here to stop marketing themselves as a piece of meet. You will attract vultures and predators every time. If you seek money and need to use your body to get that then i can bet some men here will gladly agree to exchange money for....affection. So as 2018 closes i finally am having some success. One is definitely real and the other i am unsure of. Either way we will see face to face when i visit the Ukraine in late January. Today i want to leave you with one of my all time favorite pics. It's my son at age 1..he's now14. Enjoy and Merry Christmas!