Hello ladies and gentlemen and thx for reading my blogs. I have touched on this before but really feel like I have to talk about it again. The topic....a chat invitation from a person that shows LOTS(100%) interest but then NEVER is available when we want to look into their eyes. For me to know someone is really interested it's 100% my rule and should be the rule of this site that a chat should include a camera. No, I don't mean to see a woman's body all the time but to see their eyes. Often when I even try to chat with someone who sent me an invitation they are chatting with more than one man literally at the same time. Doesn't this seem abit shallow? When I am online I don't broadcast or chat with more than one lady do why should she? I am very much not a person who gets jealous, and I believe that a woman should have her own time even when we have a solid relationship. Much like I want to watch sports I just assume my lady wants to have her nails done and drink champagne with her own friends. The site sometimes seems very eager to help and then other times it seems to work very much in a way just to make money. SORRY READERS...MY LOVE AND WORDS AND THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS ARE NOT HERE TO BE MONETIZED!!! I cannot say this in a strong enough way. If you are serious about chatting and learning who I am then I would make the strong assumption that you #1 have a camera so we can see each other and #2 have the time to invest 100% in this journey we are on. I almost said "that we are all on" but I am 100% sure that many are not on this journey for love but for personal gain. I give every person here a chance but I have not seen any of the most beautiful women here that send these chat invites without a camera..not once! And I have never seen these beautiful stories of success that we have seen in the blogs here...of couples finding each other. Not ONE!!! Beauty is not my #1 factor but it is one, whether it's internal beauty or external, I still have not seen it. Also, having been to the Ukraine myself many times I know the salary or most people there, yet on this site it seems all the women are doctors and salon owners or have rich fathers. Why would a woman want to leave her home country at all if she were so lucky as to make even $10,000 a year...which is a high salary in the Ukraine. It is abnormal to be honest and I find it dishonest at the least, and misleading and wrong at it's worst! Common sense tells even the dumbest of men that a #10 beauty that has wealth won't want to leave her country ever except holidays and vacation. I challenge anyone that reads this to disprove my theory in this blog. Lastly, I just got back from the Ukraine and tried to arrange to meet in the cities where I went. Do you want to know the truth? Those ladies suddenly became busy for an entire month or were in the hospital fiercely ill. I don't believe it for a second. Try to chat with a lady in a city you have visited and you will quickly find that you are blocked all together! I want ONE...JUST ONE normal woman of normal beauty with a normal life and real honesty. We men see pics of you ladies holding smart phones and taking pics to send to us in these many sexual and sensual letters about love and Destiny...but ask that woman to let you see her EYES and BOOM...she doesn't have a camera...and can't talk to us. I feel firmly the site must address these issues and do it in an honest manner. I myself have studied these sites and write a blog in a more public forum and I assure you that read this, my words are heard and these things I speak of really happen. I don't know what to really say now other than to express my disappointment. Sorry for the bad tone of this blog but I cannot contain my sadness and real disappointment. Admin...please don't edit this and please post it. I am curious to see if I am alone in my frustrations. Sorry...very sorry :(