Hi everyone and thank you for reading my post. I write many blogs but not so many get published so I hope that this one does and you get a chance to read it. I was inspired by a recent blog by Andrew and "Is it weird". Yes I agree that every woman on here should be able to make herself available on camera for chat. As men we pay to keep this site active and we know how expensive that can get. Dating can be an expensive proposition no matter in real life or in the virtual world. All laptops and smartphones these days are equipped with cameras so there is no honest reason why a lady should not be able to turn on a camera and show herself as a real person. Another beef of maine is the fact that most women on this site state they are ready to move to another country but yet many of them do not know English nor do many not make an effort to learn it. In order to come to Canada or any other English speaking nation one has to be able to carry a simple conversation as it would be for any man traveling to Ukraine, Russia or any other country to meet a lady he likes and desires to know. When a lady states that she is at the intermediate level of knowing the language it should generally mean that she knows a good amount of English and should be able to carry that conversation. That should mean she knows more than a dozen words. Her knowledge should be even more proficient if she intends to get a working visa to come here. Another serious thing that bothers me is that many ladies here do not want to share contact information. Yes I understand that you all are treated very well by the agency because you are their bread and butter for earnings but there does come a time when one needs to venture away from the umbilical cord and get out on your own. If your desire is to move to another country it might be a good idea to learn more about that country and all its customs including language and what better way to do so than to share more information. These are just my own opinions and I never mean to do harm to anyone or upset anyone either but I have been here almost 6 years now and have many chats, wrote thousands of letters to hundreds of ladies over that time however when I think I have found one special lady I only concentrate on her and do my best to develop an honest relationship with her. This does not always work out how you want as after months and months of dialogue with nothing changing and no forward movement one gets very discouraged and feels like this is all a sham. So ladies and gentlemen I encourage you all to rethink why you are here and if that is to find true love, then be honest with yourself first, then with each other and if you find someone that you think you will be able to love then do all you can to build an honest, strong and loving relationship built on trust. Trust each other and you will go far, be honest and upfront, work together and do all you can to make a relationship that will last forever. After all isn't that why we are all here. Thank you for taking the time to read my rant and I look forward to seeing it published.