When it comes to sex, it is absolutely necessary that men cheat. But for men it is not cheating, but what is needed to help them perform well overall, at their job as well as their home. Ladies, just because your man has a sexual affair with another woman doesn’t mean he wants to leave or divorce you for that woman. It is just that, a sexual affair. He just needs to be stimulated mentally and physically.

Mentally he may have lost interest in the same old conversation about your career, your job, and what you did that day. Physically you may have gained weight or stretch marks from child bearing. Yes I know, this is a normal process associated with age, but men don’t frequent strip clubs to see unattractive women with stretch marks and baby fat.

Women you must understand that man is naturally aggressive and wants and needs to be the head and leader. He must be given drink first before you can even think about having your thirst quenched. So, he feels the loving at home has become lukewarm and he goes and finds himself a “new new.” He wants something refreshing, invigorating, that will raise the hairs on the back of his neck. He wants that woman who will give him the sexual gratification he needs, whenever, however, wherever, without hesitation.

Come on ladies, most women don’t even know that their man is cheating, because when he returns home from being with his “new new”, he is happy and satisfied. He will lay down with you and give you pleasure with the tenacity of a lion and the gentleness of a dove. Not only that, but he will spend quality time with the children or endure those tireless moments with you window shopping. You are happy with your man and the father of your child.

But, it isn’t just you and the children who are happy, but his job performance is at a high level and his supervisors praise him greatly and he comes home happy and appreciated. All this is so only because his sexual appetite is satisfied.

So, ladies everywhere please know this one fact. It is man’s natural tendency to soil his natural oats. Denying him this natural act means denying your natural happiness.