I just wonder how you men treat self-sufficient women there in your country ?)) Don't get me wrong, guys, I have a huuuge respect for all women here who've decided to look for their second half outside their country!!)) Its a big step , and I'm quite sure every woman had to think twice before started to do this! But using this wonderful site for quite a while where I've met very nice and sweet and absolutely charming men, honestly sometimes I got a feeling that you men in some way afraid self-sufficient women?Is that really so important for you men, to be more sucessful then your beloved woman?And how you, men, really feel when woman is a little bit more successful at her job then you?))))And you really think that women who've achieved quite good success in career can't be less successful in love?))) Dear men, if a woman loves what she does so that means she is not family oriented ??Very very interesting to hear a normal opinion of mature men here!!Let us do not forget that LOVE and CHEMISTRY should always be on first place;)))And even self -sufficient women also can be lonely, coming back home after a hard working day in an empty apartment!