What is and what is not possible? Seems to be the ultimate question. The cliche tells us "Anything is possible, most possibilities are improbable", so it comes down to one's own comfort level as to how much we choose to believe. We love our relatives, favorite foods and activities. But this is not romantic love. Love at a distance is not unconditional because there will always be the innate desire to consummate that love in the physical realm. So how deep is your desire for a physical presence. Those here for a real relationship have their limitations to that end. A penpal is not the objective. A living loving person at our side is the objective we seek. No one's patience is infinite unless they already have all they desire and seek. Keep this in mind while you spend time learning behaviors and peeves between each other. Compatibility of mindset is very important yet it does not delete the basic desire for attraction. My opinion is to learn what is important for you and progress to the meeting that cements your ultimate connection. As always my opinion is just that; agree or disagree in part or whole but think.