Yes, I'm divorced. Yes, I have Daniel and I love him very much. Recently, my son had a birthday. He is 2 now. He is a very good boy, and I do not know how I can explain to him why his father refused him. Many foreigners believe that “Divorced with a hindcarriage” are only looking for a daddy to their child and they don’t care who they are. Allegedly, these women are less valued than those who have no children yet. And I will tell why a man in the prime of life is likely to choose her as his wife. "Divorced with a hindcarriage." 1. She has already built relationships Most mothers who raise a child on their own were once married or in a serious relationships. She wanted them - and surely will want again, as soon as she recovers after parting. She knows what it is - to live together, to tune in to each other, to make compromises and accept the shortcomings of a partner. She is ready for these difficulties. 2. She does not want a child right now Pregnancy and childbirth - passed stage. And even if she wants more children, she will not demand them this very moment. And if for some reason you cannot have children, you will not feel guilty about it. 3. This is a strong woman: you are not a lifeline for her, but a partner My favorite myth about single women with children is a sentimental story about a mercantile predator who is just waiting for a sucker, on whose neck she can sit on with offspring, and the unfortunate peasant will support them all. I always laugh a lot at this moment. A man does not seem to understand that a woman, in fact, coped well with life before him, and would also cope without him: she has nowhere to retreat, she has a child. And, since both she and the child are all right, it means that she succeeds in everything: raising the child herself, and earning a living, and somehow arranging this very life. And a man for such a woman is not a lifeline, but an equal partner. If this is a normal man. 4. This woman is an open book. Everything about her is clear to you from the very beginning. You understand whether you have a serious relationship or not. Because she has a child. And the way she treats him gives out all her essence. Immediately. You just have to look and draw conclusions. I hope that after all the points you will change your attitude towards women with children, and you will understand that this is not a problem, but the opportunity to be a happy three! Men, what is your opinion? Best regards, Julia and Daniel