I would like to add my opinion on the topic of women with children. I have been asked by quite a number of ladies why their having a child/children would scares men away from them. First off, if you approach a man and ask him this question keep in mind it is only HIS opinion about the subject. Not all men think alike and have the exact same mindset. Which brings me to my second point. Do not judge all men for the thoughts, opinions or actions of one. A man will tell you his honest answer to this question and you need to respect him for this and accept his wishes. There are men who simply do not want children, do not want to raise another man's child/children and then there are men who are ready to accept you and your child/children. You must completely understand the legal issues of what it is to accept another man's child/children. The father of this child/children absolutely must sign a legal document giving you permission to move abroad with your child/children. You are asking a man to put himself in a situation which most often leads to a lot of legal red tape and or worse. A lot of men will not want to get involved in heated rivalries between a couple with a child/children. The only way you can ever move abroad without such conditions is if the father has lost or has signed off on ALL parental rights to his child/children. He has no further say in what you do with his child/children. Of course it would be very advisable to have documented legal proof of this fact when you apply for a visa in the future. This is by far the hardest relationship between a couple and it takes a very patient and willing man to accept what must be done to be with you and your child/children. I have only touched on this subject and my suggestion is for a woman to research every detail of what has to be done in order for her to move to another country with her child/children. If you want to increase your chances of finding a man who is ready and willing to accept all that goes along with meeting you then be prepared. Have all the documentation and proof you need that permission to move to another country is already granted. Having the proof the father of your child/children has legally accepted this is a major plus for you. To say the least it is a huge responsibilty on a woman to ensure there will be no consequences or legal issues for her moving to another country with her child/children. This is why so many men are not willing to get involved with you. Be patient, be thourough and most importantly be prepared to prove there will be no legal issues in the future. Countless relationships have ended because the woman simply did not take all the steps required of her and were forced to return home and start all over again. You can find love as a woman with children, it just takes a little more effort on your part to show a man he has nothing to worry about in your future together.