This is my first blog so it will be a little boring, I have received over 700 letters from more then 200 ladies, all of them are absolutely beautiful. Now is where the questions begin, I had updated my profile stating that I have cancer and im now unemployed. I understand many of the women here do not care about age or looks but wouldn't you think that having something that could kill you is important? I still get many letters BUT NO ONE READS WHATS ON THE "ABOUT ME" SECTION. Honestly I expected the letters to stop, I mean who wants to be with someone who will probably die from cancer. But, there are so many wonderful women here :) I guess what all of this is about is I believe that one should invest a little effort in reading someones page before acting impulsively, if you cant give that little effort then why try at all? Getting to know a little info about these beautiful women in advance by reading their page is worth the effort. The same goes for the women, please read all of the mans info. You may find its not wasted effort. Good luck people!!!!