What are we all looking for on this site? No matter how it was there, we all came here to find love. But more and more often, I am faced with the question: why is it here, on the Internet, and not in real life, are we looking for love? Firstly, because the commuicate on the Internet is much harder than in real life, in my opinion. Here, we learn to love and understand a person not for looks, voice, clothes. We are doing a lot more work: learning to love the inner world, thoughts, words. We learn to understand a person with whom thousands of kilometers share, the language barrier and sometimes, the difference in age. Is it possible to do this in real life on the first date? No, I don't think so. After all, usually, the first communication in real life ends as quickly as our opinion about a person begins and can be based only on impression and speculation, or on idialization, right? Secondly, we all appeared here, each with its own history and experience of relationships. I think everyone had both positive and negative experiences in a relationship. But no matter how we were there, in some case with a "wounded soul" and lonely people came here, feeling hope ... Our parents grew up with kind and honest children and we, carrying our nested qualities, learned the relationship and most likely many of us tried to build happiness being in a relationship. But since we are here, we have failed in some way, which means that we met people on our way whom parents could not teach to be kind and honest ... And these “grown-up” children hurt our hearts causing mistrust and loneliness.. It seems to me that if we all understand the nature of why we are here, then our search should be successful. One has only to open his eyes and heart and not be afraid again to show confidence. As for me, it's not scary because if we are here, then we are already brave! All successful search for the second half! Dasha