These next few tips will give you further help on a first date.
1.) Plan An Emotionally Charged First Date
First dates are meant to be fun. Great first dates should be emotionally charged and exciting. Think roller coasters or go kart racing instead of dinner and a movie if you want to create a strong bond right from the get go.
2.) Past Relationships Are Just That…Past
Past relationships shouldn’t be a first date conversation. Let the past be the past. Yes, your past has helped make you who you are, but no guy wants to hear about all the other guys you’ve been with right off the bat. Never talk to your new guy about your sex life with an ex.
Past relationships don’t apply to your current relationship. This is a new guy. It’s a new relationship. Don’t compare him to past boyfriends and lovers. It’s not fair and it’s irrelevant. You’ll only make him feel like he’s not good enough or that you’re not over your ex.
3.) Beware Of His Ex Bashing
A guy who constantly talks about his exes on a first date is a red flag. You shouldn’t talk about your exes on a first date and neither should he. Be extremely leery if he’s constantly bashing his exes.
After all, you’re not dating him to learn about all the other women he’s been with. You’re supposed to be having fun and getting to know each other. Keep conversation light and flirty. Serious stuff can come later.
4.) If It’s Not Right, Walk Away….No, RUN!
If a first date isn’t going well, it’s ok to walk out. Don’t feel like you owe him a full night. If a connection isn’t there, then what’s the point? Glancing at your watch can help give him the clue you aren’t into him.
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