I am a woman who has some experience. I know what a happy relationship is. Wise people say that it's necessary to learn because of your mistakes. But the better thing to do is to learn because of the mistakes of other people. It's necessary to look at their relationships and to analyze it. What things they do right? What things they do wrong? If you will do such a thing then you will become wiser and will not make mistakes again. I know that some people make the same mistakes again and again. It means that they should analyze things which happened in the past. I don’t know if you will agree with me but I believe that it will be wrong to blame just one partner if things went the wrong way in a relationship. Both man and woman do something wrong. Yes, I know that there are exceptions but it happens rarely. I noticed one thing. It’s a thing which happens in a relationship often and doing of it may lead to a bad ending. Do you have any suggestions? Ok, I will not make you think for too long. I talk about having a wish to change the character of your partner, to change his or her features of character. For example, if you don’t like that your partner is too stubborn or too impatient. You starting to do something to change it but I guarantee you that you will not receive a result you expect. Your partner will resist changing and it will bring negative only. You will not feel comfortable too. And what do we have now? Problems only. That’s why I often say that it's necessary to know your partner as well as possible before the building of a family. You should know all about the good and bad sides of the character of your partner. And then you should make a decision – to move forward or not. According to my experience, I may say that it's possible to change something in your partner but I talk about small things. Basis things of character cannot be changed so you will waste your time trying. The best thing to do will be to accept your partner with all of its flaws or to leave it. People who do not fit you. Don’t waste your time for them. Keep in mind that time is the most valuable thing a person has. We should live and enjoy life. Learn every day and accept each day as a gift. I am sure that your life will be full of happy moments. Stay open and positive always.