Happy Mother's Day to all the moms and grandmoms here on this site and throughout the world. I would like to say a few things about my time here on this site as I have been here just over 6 years now. I have fallen in love with two or three ladies over my time here and have written to many over that time. I am currently in conversation with one special lady for more than 18 months. In the beginning while writing her I was also writing others until it became evident that I had feelings for her and she seemed to be the same towards me. For the past number of months I have exclusively just been writing her. i have always been open and honest with her and believe she has been the same with me. Because I am not rich and live on a government pension which barely covers my monthly bills I have always been upfront about my ability to travel to Ukraine. I know it is a big ask but one of the points I always state is that a woman must be able to come visit me here in Canada. I know that there is a process but at least our countries are friendly with each other and such but the visa process still takes time and effort. The biggest issue is language and one's ability to be able to carry simple conversations. Of course if one plans to move here and work then that changes to a higher level of fluency. I also know that women are treated like royalty here on this site because they are the ones getting us men to spend our money on monthly memberships and credits for chat. It can get expensive for us here. Because of the language issues and internet connectivity in Ukraine many women do not wish to share contact info nor are they taking the time to learn English which would lead a man to think just how serious are you when you tell him that you want to move here, that you love him and you will marry him. Another issue I have is that it seems evident that many women here do not even bother to read a man's profile. Any lady that writes me or even sends a chat request leads me to at least read her profile. For the past 8 months or more I have stated on my profile that I have found someone I am close to and basically in a relationship with and that I will not reply to or answer letters or chat requests but still I get dozens of letters and chat requests daily. I don't want to be mean to anyone but I do wish that all ladies would take the time to read a man's profile and see what he is about. If he asks for something then please respect his directives and do as he wishes. Ladies, you would not want your man to be writing other women if he was with you so why do you want him to write you if he says he is in a relationship. Be open, be honest, be yourself and you may find the man or woman you are looking for. Take the time to get to know that person and then if things are good between you both, begin to work on how you will make your lives better for each other and figure out how and when you will meet in real life. Be true to yourself and the world will be your treasure, filled with love and happiness. I write many blogs here but not all get past moderation so I do hope to see this one posted soon. Have a wonderful day and again, Happy Mother's Day to all. I am not sure you all celebrate this special day for mothers but I extend my congratulations to all mothers.