I am a young woman, but I am not infant and naive. There were so many situations in my life that made me wise and experienced. All of us dream to date someone who will bring pleasant emotions, not depression. So how to be a person who inspires and motivates? First of all, you should develop yourself. You can't do anything in your life and be the perfect one! I think that reading books, taking online courses, learning something new will always be useful for your life. In future you will hear such phrases:"Wow, you are so smart and intelligent, I like you!" or "You are a great example of purposefulness!" What else can you do to attract people? Cooking! Yes, if you cook delicious food, all people will remember you as a talented person. I remember the day when I went for a picnic with my friends, and none of them could cook. So I prepared fresh salads, hamburgers and I grilled meat. They still say that I was the best cook among them. Also, you can enjoy your life and and just be frank. It's always nice to talk to someone who loves life! Thank you for reading. Have a nice day!