What is important in the relationship between a man and a woman? This question has always interested people. Many scientists and great thinkers were looking for the answer, but they did not come to a common opinion. The relationship of a man and a woman is a mechanism launched by two people, which has its own levers. Ideal would be those unions in which all parts of the lever work properly. And if there is an “rusty part” somewhere, then failures begin in the operation of the lever. In order to identify the location of the faulty “parts”, it is necessary to understand what the mechanism of these unions is made of. In order for the union to be happy, the efforts in the pair must be made by both partners in the same quantity. The relationship between two lovers is a great deal of work. If one of the lovers will try to save the relationship with greater return, and the second with less, then soon the first partner will feel that the union is more important than the second half, in the end, this will eventually lead to discontent, and then to quarrels that will smoothly turn into protracted scandals. The best unions are those that are built on common interests, when lovers are united by a common favorite cause that makes relationships more vivid. Due to the lack of common interests, there is stagnation in the relationship. In order to prevent this, one should bring novelty into one’s private life: romantic travels, dates, surprises, diversity in intimate life and try to devote time to your loved one as often as possible. The main components of the relationship between a man and a woman are trust, the ability to feel and understand each other. Without these components there will be no long and strong partnerships! Only with experience and with time I understand how this system works, how and what needs to be done correctly, so that this mechanism works in relationships and never slows down! So, the main components of relationships for men are: confidence, comfort, passion, love, the preservation of the usual way of life and the lack of psychological pressure. Let us learn to compromise and give in to each other, and try to understand and respect each other in all situations and difficulties, support and kindle fire in each other, that must be burn forever so that the mechanism in the relationship never fails!