Hi guys and gals! why do I headline true or false? many by now already know the answer don’t you! it has been over three and a half years since I joined this site! being alone so long I wanted to find my final love in life! I came here looking for a lady from overseas because 1/ I read and heard that foreign ladies had a better culture by remaining faithful to their men! 2/ the number of times in my past I had been betrayed by English women! I no longer would give an English woman the time of day from my wrist watch let alone my love and life! I have never been a natural father and it was one dream to be a father? ladies on this site over the time I have been here question why I search for a younger lady than my age? does it require a iq of 146 or more to work out that older ladies have maybe had children already and do not want any more? younger ladies are stronger, ready to want children and make their man happy at last! I hear from those who say age is only a number and it is what we feel within ourselves and not the age difference! so ladies! please understand me when I pray for a lady to want me and love me despite our age difference and become mother to our own flesh and blood? why should there be such a stigma! I want to raise a point here though regarding children? I lost count of how many times I hear from ladies who tell me they don’t want a man from their country? Those men always drunk, abusive, cheats, liars .. you get the picture here, yet, take a look at how many ladies here and other sites have a child already? if you don’t want a man from your country then why the hell did you give away your virginity to these horrible men in the first place and some end up having that mans child?? and then these ladies come here to look for another man to be stepfather to the child they got from a man they did not want? I do not understand this? if you want to find a decent man then save yourself for that man! don’t give your body to a man you already know you don’t want? maybe your friends ridicule you because you are still a virgin and push you to have boring sex just so you can join those who already gave their body to a man they are no longer with? some friends they are if you have to follow their lead? I would sooner not have such friends! it’s your body! not theirs! I came here to find a wife I could love and adore, to try and be the best for her, I openly admit I have chatted with so many here now and many ladies have in some way wanted just sex chats! there are other sex sites for that! this site was named findbride, thats why I came here, thinking it was a site I could find my bride! what a sham! I have done some homework! there are ladies who have been here for much longer than me? I know quite a few have now been here between five to seven years now! I think they are liars because no way does it take that length of time to find a husband! how crazy! I believe they are bored with their lives so come here for dirty chats! just for some excitement! if you want sex chats then look for another site? if you want a husband and I mean truthfully want a husband from another country then ok! be here to do so but, don’t take the proverbial pee out of us men just for your bit of fun! this site changed three times at least since I been here and every time it changes it makes life far more difficult for men to find a wife here! also more expensive too! a lot of ladies do not understand men have to pay to send letters with a picture, also pay to chat with those honest, prospective ladies! when the men go silent with a lady during a chat it is often because they run out of credits to continue chatting! We men are not millionaires! so stop criticising us if we can’t send further replies whenever you ladies want or even demand! our hands are tied! you ladies get your chats and letters sent for free! we men don’t! so here is the question I want to put! are you ladies putting you profiles on here to find a husband or just here under false pretences! true or false! maybe I should I’ve up even trying now considering the lies I have read since being here! very few ladies here show their honesty with their search! Unbelievable! just a few! it should be almost all of you here showing true intention f finding true love! whatever happened to honesty in our world! Where is your honesty! I have always and will be honest to anyone here! what’s the point of lies? am I right? From, Teejay.