Hi to all the readers! It is my first blog here and I wanted to devote it to the discussion of what mature women want in relationships! When we are younger, we are primarily interested in finding someone who is attractive, who can support us and who will treat us like a queen. Then, you wise up and find out life is not always as we dreamed as little girls. Sometimes relationships don't last and you may be contemplating dating again. Why shouldn't you? You're committed, confident and know how to handle the pitfalls of a relationship. By 30 you’ve had a few relationships and learned what you want and what you won't tolerate. It’s important to know the qualities to look for in a man and when you become older you won't settle for the nonsense like you did during your 20s. Everyone has experienced breakups and mishaps, but mid-life is a time to live again and to find true companionship without the drama. So, at first in mature age you realize that honesty is essential! It's not worth playing games with someone who twists the truth. A woman who has been down this road before will not bargain with childish behavior such as dishonesty. An older woman will know what battles to pursue and which ones to let go of during a dispute. She knows to not react immediately, to choose the right time to talk and to not yell. Foolish conversations will lead nowhere, and a mature woman wants her man to take the same attitude in this area! She knows what she wants, is self-assured and will not be involved in a relationship with someone who is not ready to put in the work or someone who plays emotional games. A mature woman knows the value of saying "I love you." When we were younger we tossed those words around like candy to get what we craved or to push ourselves into feeling love for someone that was never there. When she says that she loves you, she means it and it's special, not a tease. There will be no doubt in the guy's mind that this woman loves him with a pure heart. Finding balance, love and commitment is part of my way. I expect to find the same in my love relationships. I have been through the ropes and I am certainly done with the mindless games I’ve experienced in the past. Am I perfect? No way. Still, I am honest enough to know what I want in a man and how I wants to live my life. So if I sound like a woman you would want to build relationships with, I will be waiting to hear from you! Thanks for reading and have a nice day! Natalia