Honey, you hit the correct answer the first time and Yes, I felt that it came from your heart...Why? because you are right and because you are honest about it! I wholly agree. In fact, I'd say the best way to make a person fall in love with you is...Not to! Why make yourself appear to be something you are not; that's hard work and never worth it. As you say the truth will be found out eventually, see Super Woman is a comic book character, while you are a beautiful and real Woman. A Slavic Woman, and the very best there is. No one in the world can do more than compete with that, and never win..... maybe equal but never prove out better! A Slavic Woman has everything she ever needed and it's all natural and all good.....until she tries to act as someone she is not. That always fails and though the best part is left (her real self) the man is now severely disillusioned. He could leave simply because it's so much trouble to sort the real from the illusion. Don't give him that chance! You are not being honest portraying anyone else. That's always the first rule and if you're not honest, you can't really expect honesty, can you? When even one person is dishonest, there is no relationship, so you've lost before you ever began. My rule is that if you want someone to be true to you, you must first be true to yourself! That requires real and total honesty! The right way is the best way. You can let someone notice you and if you are interesting to him, then fine...the ball is in his court and he can pursue you,...or not. BUT, you gave him an honest chance and if he does nothing, it's his loss. Still some things take time and like Yogi Berra said, "It ain't over til it's over." And if the man in question doesn't pursue you, "it ain't over", because it hasn't even started and you have so many more chances to get it started, but still,...Be Yourself!!! Luck and Love to all, Ray.