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Is it possible to be too good?
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I decided to write this blog after watching a movie. It was a romantic movie and it made me cry. But I am glad that it had a good ending. Some parts of it caught my attention. Things I saw in a movie happen in real life from time to time and I would like to discuss one thing. In the middle of the movie, the main hero told these words to another person “You are too good to be with me”. I was so confused!!! I know that many people heard these words in real life before. What about you, reader of my blog? I just don’t know how it's possible to be too good to build a relationship with?? Let's imagine that man has lots of good features. He like sport, have a job and has strong family values. And a woman tells him that he is too good for her so she should leave him. This is ridiculous! Agree? Another example. A woman likes to look feminine and attractive always. She knows how to act like a lady. She is not into dramas and she tries to solve problems with honesty and open talk always. It seems that she will be a good partner but man may tell her that she is too good to be with him. Should she laugh or cry in this situation? I don’t know. I tried to understand why some people tell these words to others and some thoughts came to my mind. “You are too good to be with me” is just an excuse. A person who told you it was not honest with you. And it had some other reasons not to start a relationship with you. As for me, I am an honest and open person and I prefer to hear painful truth but not sweet lies. I believe that sweet lies will not lead to something good. And we are all knows that truth will be revealed sooner or later so it's better to stay honest always. So if you were told that “You are too good for something or somebody” then ask a partner to start being honest with you and tell you a truth. I hope that you will find an open and honest partner who will make you a happy person. And I have no doubts that it will happen!


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