The idea is mind boggling to many men who have great jobs and the career of a lifetime ahead of them. It is a hard decision to make and many can't do it without a lot of forward planning. My life is over, so Yes, I can and will do it, if she is younger than me and has a good job she wants to keep. I do think she should prospect for a job here, to see if she can do better and to check out our retirement systems. Life is good anywhere you can make it good and it's always good Together in Love! Then too, I have no loving family I'd be leaving behind and the airlines do fly both ways. So, no one would be trapped in either country.....so many possibilities! Can you not turn them into probabilities? Love and Happiness are surely worth it to me. Best wishes to all and to all, a great serving of Courage!!! Ray!