My only concern is how easily a man from a country with far greater freedoms then hers would be able to adjust. Freedoms they have had all their lives suddenly becoming a possible violation of her countries laws would make life very difficult on the relationship in the long run. Relocating to her country would have to be very deeply scrutinized and discussed at length to assure life in said country would not become a constant source of tension and being unable to adjust to lesser freedoms. I think it is far easier to gain freedoms then it would be to lose them. When love between two people becomes second fiddle to the obvious tensions of coping and or adjusting to lesser freedoms it is not advantageous to any happy future for either of them. I am not saying it is a must for the lady to relocate to a man's country. I am simply stating that it may make her life a lot easier to adjust to if she gains far more freedoms then the man would lose. As it was said, all the technology we have at our disposal a lady possibly becoming homesick can be far easier to overcome then it was in the past. As for me, I am very open to her family visiting at any time. Planning a trip to her country once or twice a year so we both can visit her family is also a very open option. In the end it all comes down to which person relocating makes better sense. In which country will the couple have the happiest life and easiest time adjusting to relocating.