The older you become the harder it is to start new relationships. Because we all have the memory of our past relationships, the fair to come trhough bad experience again, to come throught pain. I understand why some of men and women can feel - how is this word? - discouraged. We all have this feeling sometime. In every sphere of life. But I want to ask you - those who read it - one question. If to follow this thought - why to do anything if it`s destined to fail? In the end we all will die sooner or later so why to do anything, why to try? Just lie down and wait for death. Sorry, may be words sound rude. What I want to say is that life has meaning because of attempts. Yes, may be you had bad relationships before, quarrels, divorce, came through bad experience. BUT ask yourself! If you could move back to the past would you change anything? If you didn`t have your previous experience You wouldn`t become who you are now. So why even try? That`s why. Cause life is nothing without trying. So that`s why I write this motivative post. Because I think that whatever we had in past we should give yourself another chance. May be this time relationships will fail again. Noone can guarantee that everything will be good this time. But what if not? What if this time will be different? What if this woman is exactly the one who you are searching for? You can`t know that. So risk! And the happiness will come to you! Good luck to you!