Once we are all were little kids. Most of us had a happy childhood. It was a happy time and we did not have any problems. But we feared to disappoint our parents, we feared to do something wrong or to receive bad mark at school because we were afraid to be punished by parents. So as you can see fear appeared in our childhood and it's still with many of us. For example, fear by punished by boss at work. But we are on a dating forum and I know that many people are afraid of different things which are connected to the relationship. Fear to be rejected or fear to build a relationship with a person who lives far from you. From one side you want to be happy but from another side, fear does not allow you to make your dreams come true. Should we speak of harmony inside? No. In this case, the person will have an inner conflict which will make this person suffer. There may be 2 types of fear. Reasonable and unreasonable. Let's start with the first one. You are afraid to be in a cage with a hungry lion. It's normal to be afraid of this thing because your life will be in danger. Unreasonable fear. You are afraid to be rejected by a woman. Or another example you are afraid to be hurt by love. Should you fear these things? Listen to your inner voice and it will tell you that you want to love and to be loved. Your heart will tell you the same. Fear is just an emotion but it can make a huge problem for you. It will not allow you to make your dreams come true. Will you enjoy your life in this case? No. You will be too cautious and will see a danger around every corner. Let it go. Open your heart and try to understand what you really want and need. Once I had fears too. I did not want to be hurt by love and I did not know if it will be right to relocate. But then I understood that it's just empty fears. They will not allow me to become happy. I took a deep breath…And do you know what happened? I felt relief. I felt that I am free. Free to do anything I want. And I became a different person. If you have some fears which are connected to love and relationship then you need to let it go. Free your mind and heart of fears so it will be filled with love. Do things you want to do but not things you must and you will see that your life will change.