I find it very informative reading the women’s blogs here. I wish this had been available 20 years ago. My decisions may have been different. Although I wouldn’t change my path then because of my experiences and the beautiful children I have now. Being at the age I am, hopefully life’s experiences have given me some insight and wisdom. I don’t know everything. In fact the more you know, the more you know about less and less. It’s a quote. Men in the USA are being taught it’s bad to be masculine due to the feminist movement. This is the reason I have chosen to look for a lady from your country for a wife. We all have past experiences that we bring into a relationship. Some more than others. When someone says they’re not good enough for someone, it’s either true or they were told growing up they weren’t good enough. Hopefully, God brings someone in their life to help them or a spouse nurtures them to know it’s not true. Either way one has to decide if it’s worth it. Could this person be the one that will bring the greatest happiness to their life. My up bringing was not the best. I have heard a lot worse than mine. Everyone wants love in their life. We all don’t know the best way to find it or to show it. If we are open and honest with whom ever we choose that is the best choice. I can’t speak for all men, just myself. I want a woman who will respect her man. My responsibility to my lady is to love and cherish her. The best definition for love is 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7. This is what I strive for. I still have a long ways to go. We all need a little patience. Good fortune in your search. Rich