Most women are afraid to show that they are alpha, because they are worried that they will be labeled as with the derogatory B-word. Many women hide their real personality in an attempt to be a submissive woman that they think they should be to find a man, and they seek out an alpha male. Then they end up married to an alpha male who is not committed to the marriage who cheats on her and is often abusive. They often view the beta males who are not aggressive as poor choices for husbands. Beta males are often shy and need an aggressive alpha woman in a relationship. They need an alpha female to control the relationship and teach them their role in the relationship. Beta males are men who prefer a strong woman. They make good husbands and enjoy pleasing their wives.