Ilona! There was no chemistry! It was just terrible! That what I heard from my friend. As you can see she is a very emotional woman:) I think it's good because she shows what she feels always and I know that she is very open and honest. A few days ago I enjoyed a cup of coffee at the café and she told me about her love adventures. According to her words, she found a man through the internet but they did not communicate a lot. They decided to meet as soon as possible. Everything was ok except one thing – there was no chemistry. I asked her if he had a good look and she gave a yes answer. Was he intelligent and smart? Another yes answer! Sometimes I think that my friend is too picky:))) According to her opinion she pays too much attention to chemistry on a first date. If she doesn’t feel it then it will be the end. I know that many people act this way. Women especially (because they are more emotional than men). My friend will continue her search because I know that she will not change herself. But that talk left one question on my mind – should we try to know a person as well as possible if there is no chemistry? I wonder what answer may give other people and that’s why I write this blog. I am an emotional person but I have “cold” head and I will not let my emotions to rule my actions. I am sure that chemistry which appears immediately is a very rare thing. Partners who decided to have a first date should not expect to have strong chemistry since the first minute of the meeting. The inner world of a person is the most important thing to me. I need to know a person as well as possible before building of a relationship. The more things I will like the more feelings I will have. It’s the way my heart works:) Unlike my friend I want to know the man well. My intuition tells me that I do things right. Dear reader, I think you should not make rash decisions too. It's not a problem if there is no chemistry on a first date. Try to know partner better and chemistry may appear! Chemistry teacher Ilona:))))))))))