I have been on this site for over 5 years and there are a few things that I still don't understand. I have noticed that many Ukrainian women say they need attention. I understand this and I have always given my lady lots of attention. But the women I have chatted with for awhile are never happy with just one man. Some will be on multiple sites during a chat. Some chat with several men from this site at the same time. So how can one man compete with that much attention? I thought, at one point, that I had found my one. After 3 years I found out that she went to Poland to be with her "Special Man". Incase you haven't guessed, I'm not from Poland. I couldn't believe it, she posted it on her Facebook page. I have come to the conclusion that Ukrainian men already understand this whole attention thing and just move on when they realize that they can keep up with the attention requirements. Apparently a few women that it would be amusing to get other girls to tell me that I'm the most popular man on the site... hahahahaha. Sorry girls, that attention thing doesn't work on most men. I understand that it's a joke. No one in their right mind would consider me popular. I must admit it's a good joke. This is my 5th year on the site and my last year on the site. I have no idea if I will leave the site with or without a woman of my own. If not I'm an old man anyway and most likely I won't be around that much longer. Such is life. I'm pretty sure that this blog was not very well thought out. It's just the insanity of an old fool dreaming of a beautiful woman at the twilight of his life. Good luck to all in your search!!! Mike