Hello, Please note that the following is my experience and observation over the past 10 months. I joined and than just watched as letters and chats were sent to me. I was did not respond for at first, because I was trying to figure out who was real and who plays games. Unfortunately, it difficult to know one from the other. I responded to a few woman. I found that they seemed more intent to talk at me than to correspond and get to know me. Some women would begin with talking dirty to me. Asking or telling me what they would like to do to me or what they want me to do to them. Men are funny when that occurrs, one they enjoy it because that's all they want from you or two if you said this to me, how many other guys have you said this to and why do I want someone that may allow themselves to be used that way. I am a hopeful romantic. I want to believe that I am her first true love for a life time. Being naive may be one of my short falls. I fell in love with a woman here. We corresponded for almost three months. I was planning to come visit her. If she liked me in person I wanted to marry her. Our correspondence was good, we had a lot in common. Then the correspondence stopped. I sent a few more letters, no response or reasons given as to why. She had confessed her love, that she was only corresponding with me and that she wanted to marry me also. I understand things can happen, there may be a logical explanation. If the men and women want a relationship with a each other Love and Trust has to be the focal point. Be open with one another, if it doesn't feel right let them know. I know maybe I picked one of the low lying apples, because I was afraid to reach higher. I still beleive true love is worth finding. Good hunting.