I read the blog from A_N_G_E_L id: 40471 24 Aug 2019 She is teaching the Ladys how to attract men and not to distract them! She is 100% right in all she says! What I would change is the position of one point, “Photoshop”. In my opinion it should be point Nr. 1. For me as a man it is frustrating, to see all the plastic dolls on a dating site, knowing, they don’t look like that in reality. Men are not stupid, they can see that all this girls are not real. The few girls that do not Photoshop, are a good deed for me. I will set my attention on them automatically. Actually you only do Photoshop, because you don’t love and like yourself. Why you don’t like how you are looking? Because you watch way too often other women, in magazines, tv, internet. Don’t do that please, you are wonderful the way God made you! Be who you are, be real. Don’t try to impress men to much. Trust in God and He will connect you sooner or later with „your“ man. For me as a man, it is important how you are looking, yes. But what is „beautiful“ in my eyes? The most important is your aura, what you radiate. Believe me or not, it’s the first and most important point for a relationship. Is your aura attracting me or distracting me? Before you say a word to me, I already know, if I feel comfortable near you or not. It may me not always be conscious, but it is so. I can feel, what you send out. Is it love, frustration, disappointment? Are you living in Hell and ready to go with every man you can catch, no matter how old he is, how he is looking, just „out of here“, is in your mind? Ladys I can understand you and don’t blame you! But this is not a good and sound plattform for a relationship. 1. Put a few of your best, natural photos in your profile. 2. Don’t write, what you don’t like in men, what kind of men you don’t want. This shows me right away, that out of frustration, your focus is always on what „he“ is doing wrong in your eyes. Very distracting for men. 3. Be who you are, knowing who you are, natural, self-confident, satisfied, in peace. (If you don’t really know who you are, come to Christ. He will show you, heal you, strengten you and give you rest and peace! Good Luck! Mark