Very often we have lack motivation in life! I like the ancient Indian parable about how an elephant dragged logs all day and in the evening was so tired that it seemed that it was about to fall. But the elephant came up and very gently with a trunk blew a sliver from him. The elephant immediately perked up and was ready to carry heavy logs again. That's what kind of motivation we expect from a loved one in those moments when it's hard for us. Motivation, support and tenderness! But there is a logical question: why do we lack motivation and where to get it? So, it seems to me that as long as there is no peace within ourselves, then little will be possible with us! It is very important to learn how to love life with admiration. After all, every day can be the last step ... It is very important to learn not to close your eyes ahead of time ... It is very important to look - to see, to listen - to hear, and feeling - to respond ... Catching joyful moments ... although they can only last a moment but in an incomprehensible way they are able to fill the heart to the brim with life-giving fire, and then for a long time and reverently remind of something beautiful and bright, gradually blooming with scarlet flashes and spreading the life-giving aroma of warmth and tenderness through the veins ... It is very important to overflow with thanks, and h Remembering, always want to feel even more ... soak for its endless centuries all its diversity ... all nonrandom accidents ... all disinterested gifts and surprises ... all priceless acquaintances !!! It is very important to take conscious steps in the pouring rain, on a warm evening, in a snowy whirl, in a vast sky, in the surf, in flight of a moth, in the flickering light of a candle, in a fairy tale, in kindness, in the heart ... it is important to want to become all of this to feel their life and then you will experience what is beyond the control of words ... You will feel love that should live not only in the woman you love, but in the whole world that surrounds you! As soon as you let in the love of the world that life itself gives us, then the search for love will also find motivation and you can easily meet your "elephant" who will give you as much as the world! Motivation and love :) Thank you for your attention, Lena