It's not a secret that looking for love may take a lot of time. But you may find it easy if you are lucky enough. If you found it then you may take another step. What will be the next step? It’s a building of relationship and working on it to keep it happy of course. Not all couples may pass this stage. Some obstacles may happen on their way and if they can not overcome it then they will reach the bad end. I believe that it's really necessary to know why your relationship ended. The answer may be easy if your partner cheated. Such a thing happened to me before. My man cheated me but I left past behind. But what if we will talk of more complicated things? Partners may break up if they are too different and not have lots in common. In this case, they reach an agreement to break up. The thing which interests me the most (the main topic of my blog) is who will initiate this talk? If you will ask a single person about past relationship then you may hear that it was a mutual decision to break up. Did you receive this answer before? I am sure that the decision can not be mutual. Somebody should take the first step in this direction. And it will mean that this person doesn't not like some things much more than another partner. One partner is able to endure it but not another. I am an honest person and I expect people to be honest too. I am not afraid to say that it was my decision to break up. I also know that some people don’t understand why their partner left them. She (he) just decided to leave someday. Yes, that happens and it's terrible because you do not even know why your partner left you. It's necessary to know why in order not to let such a thing happen to you again. Questions should be answered. Anyway, I don’t want to sound negative today. In fact, I am in a good mood now! The main point of my blog is to let you know that it's really necessary to know why you broke up with your ex (some people still don’t know why). If you will know why then you will not do the same mistakes again and you will make your next partner happy.