1. If this is fate, then nothing will stop you from being together. Actually it's not true, because relationship is a hard job. You should do all your best to be together. Yes, if you know it's a destiny, you will struggle for love. But some people are waiting for love sitting at home and watching TV. It's not smart, because all of us have devices and fast internet connection. We can learn foreign languages, spend more time online, write letters, organize trips and dates in order to find the best half. You can't just sit and wait. ⠀ 2. An official marriage is out of date, this is just a formality. When a Ukrainian woman finds a nice man from the USA (just an example), he should understand that he will be responsible for her fiance visa. They should take more pictures together and prove the Embassy that they are a couple. Then, a woman comes to the US and the couple should get married officially. It's important, otherwise you will date in a distance for many years... ⠀ 3. Women are monogamous, men are polygamous. I know several couples where men never betray. It's pleasant to know that monogamous men exist. ⠀ 4. When a relationship is right, it’s always easy. You can put the rules when it comes to feelings. Yes, you can ask to stop washing dishes at night and do it every morning. Or you set the rules that you should call each other every hour. But don't you feel like a handcuffed person then? I think it's important to feel personal freedom and follow your heart. ⠀ 5. A child strengthens marriage if it is on the verge of collapse. The biggest mistake of those who want to save the relationships. A child will never stop a man to leave if he doesn't love his wife. A child may cause a depression to a woman who feels sad in relationship. A child should not be a magic pill in failing marriage. Kids are the flowers in the garden of love, respect and care. ⠀ 6. Conflicts destroy relationships. Happy couples do not conflict. It's not true, because we are intelligent people with our own opinions and minds. We are different, and due to conflicts and discussion we can express ourselves. But don't forget to find the compromise in the end! ⠀ 7. If you don't do it 2 times a week, you have problems. No, sometimes people are tired after work. Or they are concerned about something and they can't do it... Moreover, love doesn't need a schedule. Some couple do it every day and then they have a 2 week break. Not because they don't love each other. They are just concentrated on something else. 8. If we get married, he/she will change. You can't change a person but you may improve his life by your good traits. Your partner can be your reflection. Show a good example, and he/she will follow you! ⠀ 9. Dating site doesn't work. No, I know many ladies who fould their husbands on dating sites. And some of them have kids and successful business abroad. We should do all our best to find the proper person. And that's why I write in my blog.:)