How can you shortly describe a time we live in? I can describe it with one word. Speed! Everything happens so fast! New models of devices and cars appear almost every day. People change their work often. Life is similar to the race we want to win. We don’t have time to stop and to analyze things. What does happen to dating? People don’t have time for long communication and they prefer to meet as soon as possible. My friend for example. She doesn’t like to talk to the man. If he wrote to her and she like his photos then she agrees to have a date with him. How many dates she had? 10? 50? I don’t know. And I have doubts that she remembers it all. Is it good? I don’t think so. Actually she is still single. She wonders why?! I know her well and she is not a player. She is a good girl who wants to build something special. In my opinion, she rushes things too much. I believe that it's necessary to communicate with the person for some time before having a date. Both of you should have something in common and you should know about these common things before a date. If both of you will meet without having a normal correspondence then man and woman will feel like strangers. Will you like it? No. I believe every reader of my blog wants to have a great first date. That’s why you should pay attention to correspondence. Sure I don’t mean that you should correspond for a too long time but it will be good to know a person better before the meeting. In this case, you will know that you meet not with a person who has 2 legs, 2 hands, and pretty face only. You will know something about the inner world and character. And knowing it is very important! If you will keep it in your mind then the best date in your life is yet to come.