Do you want to build something special? Do you have a curious mind? I am sure you do! You are a member of dating forum and you are reading this blog now. You have some doubts but you listen to your heart and you follow your dream to find a good partner. I am sure that your dream will come true sooner or later and you will become happy. There is a thing many forget about. I talking of other people now (your closest people such as family and friends). Is their opinion important to you? Will you listen to it? No, no! I make my own decisions. That’s what majority of people says. But the truth is that many of us pay attention to the opinion of other people. Some even allow to closest people to interfere in personal life. It may be your sister (or mom, or friend) who is extremely protective of you. She says that she wants to see you happy and she wants you to be with a good woman who fits you. Statistics (you may find lots of interesting info through the internet) show that if a person pays too much attention to the opinion of other people then it will stay alone. I know it's sad but it’s a fact that closest people may ruin your personal life. The best thing to do will be to say that you appreciate their care and support but you live your own life and only you know what will be better for you. As for me, I am a big girl and only me responsible for my life. I started to live an independent life many and many years ago. My relatives and friends don’t have an influence on my life. I make my own decisions. Some are good but some are bad. In any case, I chase my dream and I am sure I will get what I want. I don’t know you (a person who reads this now) but I want to wish best of luck to you and may your dream to come true as soon as possible.