I just wanted to write and let everyone know about my experience on this site!!
First off guys and gals don't lose heart there are real people out here looking for real love! I've heard the Same Rumors most of the guys here have heard..That the girls are paid and/or that the site is a scam!While I have confirmed there are some "paid" Ladies here most are sincere!I do understand why they may pay some women to do what they do,to help keep us interested and on our toes for the possible real scammers out here! But as I said don't give up because love really can be found here,and I know because it has happened to me!

When I started I went through hundreds of profiles picked ones I liked best and ended up with 70+ and slowly narrowed the field until I was down to 3 ladies!It was very hard to "Eliminate" some of these wonderful women some of whom I spent hours talking/emailing!But I narrowed my search to the 3 best suited to my needs and talked only to them! While all this was going on I had a lot of personal problems going on in my real life,including the loss of my 3 kids to a very vindictive ex wife who lied and got away with it because of my job as an over the road trucker!Then I lost my father who was doing the job I was forced by injury to retire from as a Fire Rescue Specialist!This hit me hard and I blamed myself for his death because I "Ran" away from home!All this eventually led me to make the biggest and stupidest mistake of my life,I got way to drunk to handle and tried to end my life!I felt so bad I informed all 3 ladies I was talking to and all 3 of them gave me undying support and understanding as well as convinced me not to leave!Which Obviously I didn't and things progressed along until a "Front Runner" popped ahead of the others! I spent hundreds of dollar chatting with her on video chat and via emails!
Things kind of sped up from here for us,and before I knew It I was getting contact info and now am to the point I am planning my trip to Ukraine to meet her in person!I have read that Americans can stay in Ukraine for up to 90 days without a visa and I am seriously considering stay there for at least that long,Maybe long if things between Tanya and I work out the way we hope!I truly feel in all our talks,emails and chats that I have found the other half of not only my heart,but my soul as well!! I would like to thank the other ladies here for some of the best times I've ever had via a computer!Each and Everyone of you was very interesting to say the least!I will be letting everyone know what is going on from time to time,but I already know at least one of the other girls wants to remain my friend and pen pal,which I am thrilled to do because it is very difficult to let someone I grew attached to go like that!
I will be back to post updates to give fellow searchers hope that they may find their "Tanya"!
I also want to thank the sites support staff,who quickly adressed any and all issues I had with the site and quickly made things right!Thanks for all your hard work and making this site available so lonely souls can find their match!!!

But most of All I want to say Thank you to "Tanya" for everything she did and put up with on an online relationship!Even if we meet and things don't work out which from what we have both said is doubtful,but even if it is!My heartfelt thanks goes to you!You will always hold a special place in my heart!

To everyone else out here!
Good Luck and happy Hunting!
Whit Tex....
Bobby C