When I first felt what love is, it seemed to me that the earth was leaving under my feet. It happened to me at a tender age, in my sweet sixteen. But I still feel with all the cells of my soul how it was. It is not like anything else in the world. It will forever remain in my heart. Well, it didn’t end with a wedding, of course, but still I will remember this man. The second time I fall in love about in the age of twenty-two. He was chic, kind, funny, attentive guy and I drowned in his beautiful blue eyes. This feeling of lightness and happiness that I felt before returned to me again. It is like the arrival of spring when everything around comes alive from sleep. But at that moment I came across the thought that "At this time I love differently," not as it was at sixteen. And it seems like the same butterflies in my stomach and sensations, but something has clearly changed. I myself have changed. I began to perceive the world differently, to feel more deeply, and as a result, my love also changed. Well, in the end, these relations were also unsuccessful. But it`s not the main thing now! Once again, love knocked on my door when I was about thirty years old. This man became the other half of me. As if we were born for each other. I began to think about the future of which I had not done before. At sixteen, you think how you want to see his face, his eyes again and how you want to kiss him every time. At thirty, you plan your life together, you think it's time to have children and buy a home. Love becomes completely different. This does not mean that it becomes less strong, or fearful, it`s just different. Love cannot be one-sided; it is multifaceted and special for the one who feels it. During the experiment, I asked my friends and acquaintances: "How can you understand that you fell in love?" Some say that this is like to long-awaited Christmas present; someone says that it is like a blessing from heaven, someone claims that it is a physical attraction. Opinions are different, like love is so various. So how can you measure love and understand whether it is real or not? My answer: no way, such a measure simply does not exist in this world. A person simply loves, worries, takes care of a person. And if people work on relationships, take care of them, then it grows into "forever" and this can`t be seen or found. We need to work on this, every day works to be happy together. And then only you can feel the love. Not just the "real", but yours, the one that you feel, and only as you feel it. This is the secret of happiness. To feel love over which you want to work and which you never get tired of enjoying, even in small things. So my dears, make love, not war!