All people are different but there are some things which we all have in common. And one of these things is bad experience. Bad experience you had in a previous relationship I mean. Did you have it? I am sure you do! I know that the character of a person may change after receiving it. A person may become too cautious. You may stop trusting to people, your heart is closed and you think that other people want to hurt you. It's not good to be such type of person. I will try to explain. It's normal to be afraid to be hurt but the pain is not a bad thing. It may be good too. Do you know that pain is a signal that something goes wrong? It shows that it’s necessary to do something. I can tell that pain and experience are always near. You receive experience, you feel pain inside, you try to find the exit, you become smarter. It’s a simple logical chain. Experience is a really great thing you can not buy your money. You become a better person because of it and it helps you to develop yourself. It's funny but I think of pain and experience as 2 good friends who always near each other. You can not live a life without being hurt. We should accept the fact that it's absolutely normal. We make mistakes and learn all our life. So don’t close your heart. Don’t be afraid of something bad. Keep your heart open and know that you will win this game. If you will be hurt then you will become smarter. Sooner or later you will reach your goals and your dreams will come true. Believe me, you are not alone. There are many people who feel this way. Stay patient and positive no matter what.