1. Be friendly. Contrary to popular beliefs, we do not like when men turn to us with vulgar questions in the first message. Such phrases only repel. Well, unless of course you are trying to find a "nympho". For a serious relationship, it is very important to start a conversation correctly. Make a compliment, ask about her mood, you can start with a nice joke. 2. Do not forget to pay attention. Communication in the virtual world is a very fragile thing. You cannot give a person touch or face to face communication. Therefore, it is necessary to compensate for this by frequent communication or reminding about yourself. There are days when you spin like a squirrel in a wheel, in constant motion. But to pay a little attention to yourl lovely girl. Write a letter, even the shortest one, just tell her how does she feel, how you miss her. Even if it doesn’t work out on this day of long, full communication, she will still feel what you need her and that you are thinking about her. 3. Notice the little things. It is very important to care about girl. Every day we try to look a little better than yesterday. If a woman looks gorgeous, she still always has something to strive for. And do not tell her that she looks good and that she does not need fitness or a beauty salon. we are tireless in this matter. Better praise her that instead of eat cakes, she goes in for sports, that she takes care of her skin, hair, teeth, all her appearance. This is hard daily work and she will be pleased if you notice details, do some compliments and support her. 4. Be close. In virtual communication, it’s very difficult to demonstrate your presence. But there is nothing impossible and with great desire, a pen-friend can become much more dear and closer than the people who surround a woman in real life. Try to be interested in everything that she does at work, ask about her affairs and concerns. If she is successful, be proud of her; if her day was bad, support her. Try to distract from bad thoughts. Set your own example. Become support and protection for her. This is what a woman always lacks and no matter what unearthly beauty she has, if there is no support nearby and people who believe in her, even the most beautiful woman will be unhappy! 5. Be honest. Try to tell the truth, this is better than decorating reality, and then feel embarrassing when all the secrets are revealed. It will happen sooner or later. And most importantly, be honest with yourself, because if you do not understand what you need from life, what kind of woman you see next to you after many years, then how can she understand your needs and dsesires and love you. If you pretend, then she will love the “mask”, and by the way acting is boring. Live your life and don't be afraid to tell her the truth. If this is really your person, then she will understand everything and will not judge. Be happy my dear! All we need is love!