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Why you are enteringin a distance virtual relationship?
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Escape from Fear of Rejection? If that's your case, get off the internet now. I have a bomb to announce to you. Fruit of thousands of letters I receive! It is precisely on the internet that people but they reject each other! This kind of rejection that happens on the internet, It is far more severe than in the real world. Why? By two factors: 1º The internet has the phenomenon of dehumanization of the next. This allows, that people are much crueler to those on the other side of the screen. Dehumanization: That's when you see each other as a video game character, U can do whatever you want with it, and it won't have any real-life consequences for you. And the internet produces a similar feeling because of the distance, because of lack of eye contact, because of the certainty that will not give u any success, I speak of physical consequence, and that makes people give up their social filters, and that ends up causing people to put out the monster inside them. In real life most people have filters! That is, they will not come and speak in your face what they want, because they know it has consequences. They will "take it easy" what they said on the internet, and may have hurt your soul! 2º People on the internet practice what I call the Reverse criteria. They put a lot of weight on characteristics, that wouldn't be a real life priority. And because of that you get rejected for as stupid and imaginary reasons as possible. Weight, height, eating habits, hobbies, religion, politics, etc ... You believe I was rejected by my sign! What!!! Good thoughts!!!


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