The art of finding a good honest man is to be honest and to be respectful Many times ladies find it proper to do as some men ask which is strange as a real man who is serious will rarely ask a lady to prove she is real on camera! That is a bad start to a relationship he has NO TRUST!! Ladies when a guy asks you to stand up, blow him a kiss or wave then he is not serious just playing with you and you become a performer and entertainer A number of times i have been stunned when some ladies stand or dance on camera for a random guy!!! Does a serious guy want such a lady? NO I know some guys here and they are genuinely looking for love but get overlooked because the ladies look at the men who ask them to do things on camera which is very strange!!! are the ladies serious? or they just do not know what a serious guy is Remember serious men like to learn about the internal beauty of you and does not want you to entertain him!!!!!! These are my 2 ladies in the photo with me ))))))