You are the prize, you are the treasure, remember your value in the eyes of the one who will love you for all his life. Be as a wall, strong and firm, not easily swade or moved from your fondations. If you hold to your virtue your husband will decorate you with affection fill the gardens of your heart with tender kindnesses and warm memories. Set watch on your battlements with all diligence allowing none to scale your defenses save one. If you are a door, your love will leave with all the visitors, thieves, and despoilers leaving your heart cold and void. If door you once were, close it and barracade the portal and let your love mend. Clean and dress and adorn your rooms with all that is good and soon lovers will line the outeryard clamoring to come in. But, let them not enter save one. Who is this one? who should be so fortunate to be the first, only and last? God knows.
I speak poetic about this but now I'll speak plain. I find it distressing, that some of the most beautiful women in the world so cheapen themselves by presenting their intimate photos so easily. What is your discression worth? Who are you trying to attract? You speak of love and marriage and family but what good husband wants his bride's physical virtues advertised for some lecherous pig to slobber over or worse? What I'm saying is show more by your words and less of you skin. This is a husband you want not another sex crazed boy-minded man you are complaining that you are meeting where you live every day.
If you should find the man you want to get more serious with here, and he is so inclined to want a picture of you that's more, revealing then between the two of you that is fine. But at least in your initial presentation of yourself and your values stress the values more and not so much the self.
Just my two cents worth.