Hi, I've been thinking about writing this Blog for a long time, and finally decided! I want to touch on a very popular topic in our time, this is the topic of treason. I have never cheated on anyone, because for me this is the most terrible betrayal! But I had to endure treason, so I began to study the psychology of treason. My ex asked me to come back after cheating, but I didn't agree! Now I have experience and I know that a broken Cup can not be glued together. When you pour water into it, it holds. And when boiling water, it still crackles. It was possible to pretend that I did not see it, I do not know anything, to wait, to be silent. But there is such a brilliant expression of Schopenhauer: "to Reconcile with a man and resume with him the interrupted friendship is a weakness, which will have to repent when he at the first opportunity will do the same thing that caused the rupture" in this article I want to explain the essence of treason from the point of view of psychology.I have been interested in psychology since I was 20 years old, when I was a student. So, this is just information, and you decide what to do with it. But this article I will try to convey a new view of infidelity, their causes, the feelings of traitors. Really want to help, the betrayed, to forgive and leave behind the infidels. I also want to say that although sometimes it seems that there is no relationship without infidelity-it is not. Conscious Union of two adults is always love, happiness, loyalty. You can look for a thousand excuses , talk about the mismatch of temperaments, polygamous nature of man, and continue to shift the responsibility to chance. However, infidelity in a couple-a studied issue, and any of our behavior has its causes, rooted in thinking, emotional needs, fears and complexes. 1.Treason because of the Storm, the storm, the emotion. This is treason when one of the partners lacks passion, emotions in the relationship. 2.Treason-protest. Anger and resentment, impulsive desire to "revenge", "hurt", "teach" are at the heart of this kind of infidelity. 3.The act is under-loved. Treason for the sake of attracting attention, causing jealousy in your partner. Thus, the attention of another person wants to say: "Look, I am important to someone else!". He is often unsure of himself next to a loved one and wants confirmation that he is valued, that he is important, that he will not be left. 4.Fatigue and burnout. often such infidelities occur because of the cooling of the spouses to each other, mutual disappointment, the choice of different life.Perhaps, this is the most painless treason roads. These and many other individual reasons push us to change. We often lack intimacy. For example, Z. Freud noted that often an adult man seeks to satisfy two needs: to fill the mother's love and have a partner-a mistress, a life partner. what is your attitude to change? I hope you enjoy my Blog! OI thoughts from the heart!