No matter how we would like to reduce the influence of society on us and our lives, but this influence is constant! It especially manifests itself in our environment! I have not understood the proverb "Tell me who your friend is and I will say who you are!" to this time. I have not understood how it is possible to compare people, even friends, because all people are different and special! And only now I understand that the proverb does not imply similar qualities of character or behavior, namely the influence that friends and relatives have on us, and we on them! We are changing thanks to the people around us! But positive or negative changes is an another question! It is extremely important to surround yourself with people who inspire you, after communicating with whom you want to create and live, and you do not stand after meeting with them drenched 💩 and with a whole load of their problems in your hands. Of course, you can and should share problems with friends, because they are our support and help in this life! It's okay if your friend shared a problem with you, that's fine. It is abnormal only when, in fact, your help is not needed, there are people who like to play the role of the “victim” and they tell you their problem because no.. they do not want to solve the problem and get advice, but just to whine😾! Unfortunately, this is very common and you need to understand and do not take over unnecessary information and discussion about other people! There are cases when friend really need your support and help advice and such people are real friends who value your support☺️❤️, and not just want to show how good they are! It's actual in modern life! Be careful and do not overload yourself with unnecessary information about a nonexistent problems! And take care of real friends!